Want To Manifest Love Vibey Relationships? Hint! It’s About You! (video)
Many of us want a vibey, fun, and electric relationship. The LOVE of our life. But not many people manage to manifest this.
In this week's video Kissey Asplund breaks down how to go about using your creativity and energy to MANIFEST THE RIGHT PARTNER in your life.
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Manifesting Love— How Energy, Resonance and Self-awareness Shape Relationships
We want what we can't have? This isn't the truth.
We can have everything we desire, as long as it aligns with who we truly are. What does this mean? Our relationships are mirrors—projections of what is happening within us. A monitor indicating what we must update in our energy. Our relationships are information.
When we are aware enough, we can use these realizations to our advantage. They become empowering. It's never really about "them"—it's always about you.
For some, this idea may seem harsh and confronting. For others—especially those who consciously co-create and are ready to build—it's freeing. A big door-opening to choices and possibilities.
Manifesting a Partner From an Energetic Perspective
In this week's video, I explore how to think about manifesting love from a physical, energetic, and atomic perspective. This approach requires observation, logic, and the willingness to move beyond cultural stereotypes and inherited beliefs.
Dating, love and relationships are about building Resonance. Many build it resonance and focus in the WRONG direction, thus they experience the wrong relationships.
Two Shifts That Change Your Love Life
I want to encourage you to do two things to shift your love vibes already today:
Release Distorted Views of Masculine and Feminine Energy.
Manifest your relationships free from culturally distorted views of masculine and feminine energy. If you had a bad relationship in the past, it doesn't mean that all people of that gender are "bad". Nor does it mean you can't experience the super-love you deserve in the future.
Stop Gossip and Repetition Cycles.
Constantly rehearsing bad dates and failed experiences with others as a bonding method over a drink, is hurting your outcomes. When you do this, you simply build more resonance around what isn't working. Seeking advice and perspectives from others is a good thing, but when we vent solely do so to feel belonging with a particular group, we bind ourselves to the current problem. The real question is simple: Do you want to solve the issue, or repeat it?
Energy-Matches and Modern Love
What we refer to as "love" in our culture is about energy compatibility. This means we naturally date, work, hang out with, befriend, attract people who have similar resonance—or lower than us. Again, this applies to ALL kinds of relationships, including business partnerships, friendships, and family dynamics. To shift this, we must observe the part we play. Who are you being in the story of your life?
People often say, "It's a match!". Yes, when we look at the energy backend of things, it is true—it is about energy matches. These occur according to what we signal and our inner energy (what we oscillate and vibrate). It's about your frequencies.
In plain terms, whatever treatment you stand for or whatever particular experience you subconsciously desire, will be served to you as such. (Note: This article and video aren't about extreme relationship situations; those fall under another category.)
If you want a "knight in shining armor to save you", he will appear—but you must also reform your energy to become someone who needs saving. True love can't exist in such an energy-match, because of both not being themselves.
If you constantly feel like the parent in relationships, it probably is because you are subconsciously into the idea of "taking care" of a partner. People like this feel "alive" when they are needed.
Annoyed and done with your partner? Maybe it's actually that you've outgrown the frequency you are operating in and it's time for a big energy-update. It’s not about them changing, it’s about you shifting.
Are you always with a beautiful woman who doesn't want to connect beyond the material—you're probably using the wrong energy criteria in your “mating-dance”.
Energy matches are compatible, enabling or disabling, and will align according to state of your timeless (higher self). When we feel as if we're in the wrong relationship, we must examine our patterns and how we agreed on entering those relationships. Many people miss the mark here and choose to blame others. But if you are mastering energy and you see yourself as successful, you look deeper:
At what point did you say yes to the date?
When and why did you choose to pursue—or have someone pursue you?
At what point did you randomly find yourself in a relationship with your one-night stand?
To change our reality, we must look at our boundaries, energy, and beliefs. In this video, I give you a first gentle walk-through on how to detect, shift, and manifest the right partner for your energy.
Kissey Asplund is an intuitive creative consultant specialising in mental performance coaching, energy-work, and energy alchemy. Asplund is the founder of the the inner energy studio, Generation Watts. She has also gained creative recognition as a music producer, multi-disciplinary artist and DJ. The journey of implementing how mind-body modalities and meditation magnifies creativity began at 17. Today, at 43, she uses her abilities of reading and tuning the realms of energy, and coach high achievers how to embody their full potential. Learn more about her coaching here.
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